
On the occasion of the International Day of Families, Autism-Europe reaffirms the essential role that families and carers play in the lives of autistic people, while also highlighting that autistic people themselves can be parents and family members, facing specific and often overlooked challenges that must be recognised and addressed across Europe.
Marked every year on 15 May, the International Day of Families was proclaimed by the United Nations General Assembly in 1993 to reflect the importance of families as the basic unit of society and to promote awareness of issues relating to families.
Families remain the primary source of support for many autistic people throughout their lives. However, too often, this support comes at a significant personal, financial and social cost. Autism-Europe’s work on care highlights that families and carers frequently experience high levels of stress, reduced access to employment, and limited availability of quality support services.
Last year, Autism-Europe submitted a report to the UN Special Rapporteur on the rights of persons with disabilities on family care for autistic children and adults, drawing on survey data from our members across Europe. The findings show that over 85% of families reported that caregiving negatively impacted household income, and more than 70% said it had taken a toll on their physical or emotional health. Across Europe, gaps in community-based services and inclusive policies mean that families are still expected to fill systemic shortcomings, often without adequate recognition or support.
Recognising and supporting carers
Carers of autistic people — whether parents, siblings or extended family members — play a fundamental role. Yet, many carers face insufficient access to respite care, social protection, and tailored services. Women, who disproportionately take on caring responsibilities, are particularly affected by these structural inequalities. Our report found that 83% of informal carers surveyed were women, with mothers most frequently identified as the primary carer. Many were forced to reduce working hours, take lower-paid roles, or leave the workforce entirely, with lasting consequences for their pension rights and financial independence.
Autism-Europe calls for stronger investment in accessible, person-centred support systems that uphold the rights of autistic people and their families. This includes ensuring access to inclusive education, employment opportunities, and community-based services, as well as adequate financial and social protections for carers.
Autistic parents and the right to family life
This is precisely the gap that the BLUE HOUSES project, in which Autism-Europe is a partner, seeks to address. BLUE HOUSES is a three-year Erasmus+ initiative developing a comprehensive intervention model, a 60-hour specialised training course, and a multilingual digital platform for professionals working with autistic families. By training and equipping practitioners with the right tools, the project aims to promote the availability of adequate support for autistic parents.
The BLUE HOUSES Project was presented during a special edition of Autism-Europe’s Afternoon of Good Practice, a bimonthly online event for its members’ community, held on the eve of the International Day of Families. Autistic mothers from Ireland and Australia shared their lived experience and research data on how autistic parents can overcome barriers when interacting with their children’s schoolteachers, as well as youth, welfare, and healthcare providers. Other interventions focused on supporting immigrant parents in screening their autistic babies, local empowerment sessions for parents of autistic children, and community services for autistic families by members and partners of Autism-Europe.
At the same time, serious violations of fundamental rights persist. In some parts of Europe, autistic people and persons with disabilities continue to face restrictions on their legal capacity, interference in their reproductive rights, and, in some cases, forced sterilisation. According to a 2022 report by the European Disability Forum, at least 14 EU Member States still allow some forms of forced sterilisation of persons with disabilities in law. These practices are a clear breach of human rights and undermine the right to family life. Autism-Europe stands with the wider disability movement, including the EDF, in calling for an end to such violations and for the full implementation of the UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD).
A call to action
Families should not have to compensate for inadequate systems. On this International Day of Families, Autism-Europe urges policymakers, service providers and society at large to:
- Invest in comprehensive, community-based care and support systems to support families in all their diversity;
- Recognise and support the vital role of families and carers;
- Ensure that autistic people can fully exercise their right to family life, including parenting;
- End discriminatory practices and uphold the rights and dignity of all persons with disabilities.








